Today's women can find it
challenging sometimes to
keep their marriages intact
and happy. Many women
wonder why men leave their
wives and what they can do
to make sure it doesn't
happen to them.
The truth of the matter is
that our society has made it
very difficult for men and
women to find long term
loving relationships. Why?
Because the rules our
society has adopted are
based on inaccurate
information.
One of the most obvious
misconception that is
pervasive throughout our
society is the idea that men
only want sex and/or have a
much higher sex drive than
women. The truth is that
men and women have similar
sex drives but men have
been encouraged, by
society, to fulfill their needs
while women have been
discouraged from having
sex until they are married.
This leads to many
misunderstandings between
men and women and how
they approach their
relationships. It might mean a
man will be more tempted to
cheat on his wife because
after all, it's in his nature.
And it could mean that a
women uses sex with the
hopes of keeping her
husband in love with her so
he will stay in the marriage.
If we really got to the
bottom of things though we
would understand that men
and women want basically
the same things in a
relationship. Both want to
feel loved, respected, and
desired by their partners.
When you break it down like
that it doesn't really seem
all that hard, does it?
If you want to keep your
marriage strong try to meet
your husbands needs...all of
them, not just sexually. A
word of caution here though.
Because of the way our
society has told us to
behave women have the
tendency to think that they
have to meet their
husbands needs even if that
means ignoring their own. No!
All that will do is make you
resentful and bitter and that
won't keep a marriage intact.
While it's important to try to
meet your husbands needs
it can't be done to the
detriment of your own. Don't
put your wants and needs
on hold to satisfy your
husband, you'll be unhappy,
he'll be unhappy (and bored)
and the marriage won't last.
For a marriage to thrive both
parties need to be happy,
healthy, stable, and have
their needs being met on a
regular basis.
So for any women who wants
to know why men leave their
wives it's usually because
his needs aren't being met,
and I don't just mean his
sexual needs. I mean on
some level he doesn't feel
like you love, desire, or
respect him and he will try
to find someone who will.
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