You cheated on your ex
girlfriend, she broke up with
you , and now you want to
get back together with your
ex girlfriend.. Most people will
say that the relationship is
over after an affair. But any
relationship can be saved,
even after an affair.
When your wife or girlfriend
has broke up with you for
cheating on her, can be one
of the more difficult
situations for getting your
ex back. One of the most
obvious reasons for this, is
that your have compromised
the trust your ex had in you.
Restoring the trust in a
relationship takes work, and
it will not happen overnight.
But if you are sincere about
wanting to get back
together with your ex, it can
be done.
Before you start taking
steps to restore the trust
your ex had in you. You first
need to identify what the
problem is in your
relationship that led you to
an affair with another
woman. You would not have
cheated on your ex if there
was not a problem
somewhere in the
relationship.
There can be a problem you
may not be aware of without
some honest answers to
questions you need to ask
yourself. Take some time to
think about what is going on
in the relationship that
drove you to the arms of
another woman. Rather the
problem(s) is something your
doing, or it is something your
ex is doing, or it is something
both of you are doing. Find it,
identify it, and have a clear
understanding of exactly
what the problem is.
Once you have identified the
problem in the relationship...
FIX IT.
If you get back together with
your ex just because the
two you have identified a
problem, and you have not
fixed it. You are going to
cheat on her again, and this
relationship is not going to
work.
Here is some good news
though. Finding the problem
and understanding clearly
what the problem is. Is the
hard part. Fixing the problem
is not really that difficult.
That is not only true in a
relationship, it is true in any
situation. Not matter what if
something is not working,
you can't fix it if you do not
know why it is not working.
But when you know why
something is not working,
anything can be fixed.
Now that you have identified
the problem and found a
way to fix it. You can start
rebuilding trust with your ex.
It will still take her some time
to fully regain her trust in
you. But with the problem
that caused you to cheat on
her out of the way, there is
no threat of you cheating on
her again. Regain her trust
the same way you did to
earn her trust to begin with.
Let human nature do the
work for you. Do not give her
any reason to distrust you
again. Remember, trust is
earned, it is not a rite of
passage.
About The Author
Over a half million couples in
the United States alone
break up every day, only
25% ever get back together.
If your a man or woman who
wants to reunite with your
ex I want to do what I can to
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