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Monday, April 25, 2011

What to Do When YourMan Doesn't Desire YouAnymore Sexually? This IsWhat You Should DoBy Krista Hiles

It is an awful feeling when
you realize that your man is
being cold and distant
towards you and he has not
bothered to make any
physical contact with you of
late. There are many women
who are being faced with the
cold reality of their men
losing desire for them. If you
too are afraid that your man
does not want you sexually,
try out these tips and make
him want you again.
Be ready to make
changes
It is useless to want him to
desire you again if you are
not willing to be the first to
make some changes. You will
only be successful if you
are ready to face facts and
even confess that you
could be the reason for him
losing interest. Once you are
willing to make the
necessary changes even if
it means a lot of sacrifice
and trouble on your part -
you will be successful.
Find out why he has
changed
Try to get down to the "nitty
gritty" and find out the real
reason for his lack of desire
for you. Is it because you no
longer look sexy and
beautiful? Is it because he
has actually found some
one else? It is important to
get to the bottom of the
problem and identify it at
once.
Look desirable
Stop being so lazy and
lethargic where your looks
are concerned. If you want
him to sexually desire you,
you will have to give him
something to desire! Get
back into shape and wear
the type of clothes that will
make you look gorgeous and
desirable. He will be instantly
delighted to see you looking
so sexy and won't be able to
wait to take you to bed.
Surprise him by doing the
unexpected
Think back and see if your
sex life had become too
boring and predictable. Have
you been ignoring his needs
and stopped encouraging his
fantasies? If you have not
been satisfying him
physically it is no wonder
that he has stopped being
attracted to you physically.
Surprise him by doing the
unexpected and delight him
in the bedroom.
Revive the romance and
fan the flames of desire
Don't take things for
granted and revive the
romance in your relationship.
Give him the time and
attention that will make him
feel special and loved. Write
him love notes and buy
yourself some sexy lingerie
that will fan the flames of
desire.
Get rid of outside
influences
If you know of any outside
influences that are pulling
him away and stopping him
from giving you enough of
time and loving - do
everything you can to get
rid of them. Friends could try
to pull him away and get him
addicted to other activities
other than being with you.
Make him see that you are
important.
Pretend that you are
being pulled away
He could have started
taking you for granted and
stopped bothering about
making you happy thinking
that you will always be
around, no matter what! You
can put a stop to this by
pretending that you are
being pulled away! If you
make him jealous and
worried that you could leave
him, he may give you his
attention and start desiring
you again.

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